How to Network in 2020
Networking isn’t an extroverts-only game. Nor does it have to be completely selfish or “fake”. It’s also a lot easier in our increasingly connected world.
No matter what field you work in. Whether you’re a student, a freelancer, a full-time employee, or an entrepreneur, knowing how to network effectively can open doors for you.
With email, LinkedIn, Twitter, and offline events, you’ve got more tools and options for creating valuable connections today than ever before.
Whether we admit it or not, there’s a ceiling to what we can accomplish and how far we can go alone.
It’s only when we connect and collaborate with others that we can really climb to new heights.
Sharing your network with others
The quality of your connections generally trumps quantity. A drawer full of business cards isn’t a sign of the well-connected person. Instead, what matters is the quality of the actual relationships you have with the people in your network.
Evolutionary psychologist Robin Dunbar has found that there’s a limit on the number of meaningful relationships we can maintain at once and that number is around 150. This includes your professional network, so it's no wonder we trade and borrow these relationships all the time.
Maybe you know someone who does product photography/front-end web development/logo design/content writing who you can hit up if you or someone you know is in need of a particular talent.
Or maybe you’re on good terms with someone who’s well-connected with a company that might be of interest to you and who could make an introduction.
These relationships, like all relationships, need to be maintained. Just checking in to ask how someone's doing can go a long way.
Building your network lets you participate in the natural exchange of contacts, favours, and skills between people that occurs all the time in the professional world.
Become more interesting by starting things
Whether it’s starting a blog, a YouTube channel or a side business, doing things outside of your main job makes networking a lot easier. Not only does it make you more interesting as a person, and gives you more to talk about, but it also helps you make connections in the process as you try to grow something on your own.
Publishing, in particular, is an effective, low commitment way of making new connections—especially if you do it on platforms like LinkedIn or Medium that give you access to their built-in audiences. It helps you grow your personal brand too.
Think about what makes you interesting and different and craft it into an elevator pitch to keep in your back pocket for when you need to introduce yourself.
Everyone’s got a story that makes them unique, that they can tap into, but if you're stuck on where to start, here's a template that I strongly encourage you to adapt based on your own story, who you're talking to, and whether it's in person or online.
How to network in today's world
Email might be old and your outreach is oftentimes cold, but it’s still one of the most powerful ways to connect with new people, especially if you apply the following tools and tactics.
The hardest part of email outreach can be getting your hands on the contact info you need. Not everyone makes their email address available to the public.
Clearbit Connect offers a free Gmail extension that will help you search for contacts by organization to find the business emails of people you might want to reach out to.
You can use it to help you reach writers at a specific publication, marketers who might be willing to partner with you, founders of specific companies, and potential mentors you’d like to learn from.
How to create a good cold email
Every cold email you send has 3 goals:
To get opened.
To get read.
To call the recipient to take some sort of action.
In order to ensure your email is opened, your subject line should be short, compelling, and clear.
Anything over 78 characters is sure to get cut off in your recipient's inbox, and you’ve got even less room when you consider the reduced character limit on mobile. Think about how you can quickly stand out amongst the deluge of promotional and work emails we all have to deal with.
Timing is also important. Think about when people are generally at their computers checking their email: work days (Monday to Friday) in the mornings.
One of the biggest mistakes people often make with cold emails is making it all about themselves rather than the person they’re reaching out to. A good cold email proves that you took the time to do your research about the person.
Adding a little personality can also go a long way in differentiating you from all the other emails in their inbox and earning a response, whether that means adding an emoji in the subject line or a GIF in the body if you think your contact would appreciate a little fun.
Leveraging your email signature
If you haven’t already, you should optimize your email signature with links to your website, LinkedIn, Twitter and other relevant social profiles to help your contacts learn more about you. You can add this automatically at the end of every email you send by setting it up in your Gmail settings.
Connecting with people offline
Even in an increasingly online world, the best, deepest connections you’ll make are face-to-face. Offline networking events are still wildly popular—plus, they're a lot better organized now thanks to technology.
If you're interested in local events that draw other like-minded people, these platforms are among the best places to discover them:
Always consider the audience of the event before you decide to attend.
While traditional networking mixers can be fun, I'd recommend attending workshops and talks instead since there's usually a meet-and-greet component anyway where you can get your networking on. Not only do you get to learn something, but you'll have a better idea of the kind of people who will come out as the audience for these events is usually more targeted.
Be strategic about the nature of the event. If you'd like to meet Instagram influencers, for example, you might want to attend an Instameet near you.
Of course, we can't talk about offline networking without mentioning business cards.
Are business cards still important when someone can just look you up online?
Yes. Not only is swapping business cards faster and more personal than exchanging contact information over your phones, it shows you came ready to make connections, condenses your personal brand into a pocket-sized card, and invites others to contact you and tells them how.
They wouldn't be called social networks if they weren't good for networking. And unlike email, it’s much easier for you to get in touch with people and vice versa through your public social profiles.
Your social networking strategy can essentially be broken down into two approaches:
Inbound: When people find you because they are intentionally searching for you or someone like you, or stumble upon you because of your public activity online.
Outbound: When you reach out to other people online, either through a public post or direct messaging.
For our purposes, we’ll explore two of the best social platforms for networking: LinkedIn and Twitter.
How to Use Your LinkedIn profile the right way
Many people set their LinkedIn up as an online resume and leave it at that. In reality, LinkedIn is home to 467 million professionals organized by industry, skills, and mutual connections.
Not only that, when someone searches for you on Google, LinkedIn will be one of the top results, helping you to get found both on and off the platform.
The following graphic outlines the key elements of a strong, searchable LinkedIn profile. You can see the entire infographic at Leisure Jobs to learn how to make the most of LinkedIn.
LinkedIn also lets you reach out to people within your network via direct messaging. There's one caveat though. They have to be an exiting connection. You can pay to message people outside of your network using LinkedIn's InMail feature, but you have to pay for a premium plan.
When you send an invite to connect, you can increase your chances of the recipient accepting your request by customizing the message with a quick introduction and why you think the connection is worth making.
Twitter is great for networking
Twitter has always been somewhere between Facebook and LinkedIn as far as the vibe of the social platform goes. It's definitely more open to conversations that have nothing to do with work. Luckily, it leans towards LinkedIn when it comes to networking and making new connections online. In fact, in my experience, it's even better.
As a public forum, Twitter is one of the best places for talking to total strangers and finding the right ones based on the nature of the things they tweet.
Similar to LinkedIn, you should optimize your Twitter bio to convey what you do and what you're about, as well as personal tidbits that reveal your interests. Use some of the keywords that people search for (like your job title or industry) in your bio to make it easier for them to find you.
If you're looking to connect with people in a specific city, Twitter's Advanced Search can be used to search for people based on location, job title, company, or any other information that's on their profile.
Like LinkedIn, one of the hurdles on Twitter is that unless an account changes its default privacy settings, you can only send private direct messages to people who are following you.
If the person you want to reach out to isn't following you, here's what you can do:
Follow the account so that they can direct message you.
Mention them in a tweet (using @username) to start a public conversation.
Invite them to send you a direct message to start a conversation.
Twitter lists are an underused feature on Twitter, and incredibly useful for maintaining your relationships with the people you meet. Whereas your main Twitter feed will fast become flooded with all kinds of tweets, Lists let you focus only on the specific people you decide to add.
Create private lists that let you add the people you're interested to keep tabs on what they're up to.
Make an effort to engage with these Twitter friends—with Likes, Retweets or, better yet, conversations—not to reap something down the road but because adding them to a dedicated list means you probably respect who they are.
You might be wondering why Facebook isn't in this section. That's because, outside of Facebook Groups, which can be a great way to meet people with similar interests, I would caution you against messaging someone who doesn't know you directly through their personal Facebook profile, especially if it's not public.
While Twitter and LinkedIn are often used as professional channels, Facebook connections are generally reserved for friends, family, and casual acquaintances, and your cold messages might not be well-received by most people.
Learning how to network effectively isn't just a skill for the world of business.
Putting yourself out there and making connections can help you build your career, find mentors, new friends, develop your own venture, and open doors in the future.
Sometimes you "know a person" that someone else needs. Sometimes you need them. Sometimes you are that person to someone else. But you can only benefit from having these connections if you invest the time into building your network.